Thursday, November 7, 2013

Beginning to End....NPC

               WOW WOW WOW……What an experience!

      I have been so blessed with an amazing support system, not everyone may agree with what I do or understand why I want to train so hard but they were supportive regardless. People like that are hard to find and not everyone is that lucky. People if there is one thing I can tell you it is to surround yourself with people who support. They may not want the same goals as you or get it, but they will support regardless. Everyone else will wither come around or you will learn that you may not have needed them in your life anyways! I have noticed that they usually come around and you inspire, I haven't found anyone who I have had to ship outta my life yet!

      I have already told a bit of my story and background in my 1st NPC blog, My NPC Backstory. So if you haven't read that yet, its a short read so please do. It goes into detail on my 1st contest prep, finding out we were pregnant, stopping contest prep, my husbands 1st show and starting prep again post baby and C-Section.

      I picked a fall show hoping to be ready, you would think 5.5 months would be enough time to prep. To be honest it all depends on you body before, your training style and you "diet" prep. Im grateful that I'm a healthy eater regardless, and a gym rat too, because it help me be able to accomplish so much in such a short time in my opinion. Its important if you want a trainer to find one who will work your body the smart way and not ruin your body trying to get you to your goals just because you want to do a certain show. If your not going to be ready they need to tell you straight up and you should choose a new show, starving yourself, depriving yourself of water and doing endless hrs of cardio are not the way to get you there in a short time. Take the time, build your body, knowledge, and change those bad habits. That is the smart way to get you to where you want to be. Never put your body at risk! Now that I got my little rant over here has been my overall experience, prepping, the show and my honest opinion of the whole process.

      When I decided to do the fall show I was so glad there was one back home to have friends and family there to support. I got my contest prep mid June from an amazing team, Tim & Rebecca Staggs / Staggs Fitness. Once I got that prep it was game on! Starting this prep mid summer, moving across country, new baby, 2 month vacation and hotel living I knew would be challenging but totally doable, after all if you want something bad enough you will find a way to make it happen! Having a new baby I prepped food way in advance for the week so I would have time to quick grab it as I needed it so there was time for baby, knowing we were going to be without dishes for about a week because of the movers again lots of prep. When we got home everyone was BBQing, drinking, boating, snacking….blah blah blah, yes I missed out on every BBQ, every glass of wine, etc but it was all worth every second. Then we got to kentucky and we lived in a hotel for 2 weeks, I made everything in a microwave and ate a lot of canned chicken, next onto our home still without our kitchen things…more canned chicken and making my food in a small pot I had bought. Finally we get our things and its back to weekly prep as normal. Its not impossible, but you do have to be committed to it! Im so grateful that I have a gym to go to on post as well. Having access to  gym on the base has been helpful. While we were home tho for that few month vacation I got a membership at a 24hr gym so i could continue training. Now back on the base again I hit up the gyms here. In the beginning I started off with 4 days a week weight training and 2 days a week plyo, NO CARDIO…..it was amazing. I used my food for fuel and let it work for me! I did that for a few months, Lost around 30 lbs or so before I even added cardio into my workouts. When I did it was 4 days a week with HIIT training, that takes all of 20 mins of your day so its not time consuming! Towards the end I picked up my cardio to just a quick 7 sessions a week at 15 - 20 min a day along with my lifting and plyo. I never had to drastically cut calories or water, intact i ate around 1500+ most days and 1900 on others. So many people take out carbs or drastically cut them as well, I however enjoyed tons of them! Remember smart training to fuel your body not to ruin it! Everyday I ate 6 meals, trained in the gym and hung out with my family. It becomes a lifestyle after a while and you get used to the hectic schedule. Some days are better then others, some days are easier but in the end its was all worth the trip!

      Each day, week, month I could feel changes in my body. Each day, week, month I grew stronger. Not only physically but mentally. Having the mindset of no cheats, discipline and dedication every single day strengthens your mind! I went from about 180lbs Post baby to 128lbs the week of the competition. That doesn't happen with cheats and skimping out at the gym! It really is amazing the strength you going as a person going through training for something like this when you have the right mindset. My mindset going into this competition was Im going to see how much discipline I can have, see how strong I can grow, do I even like to compete, do I have what it takes to do this, how will it effect my family, I enjoy lifting so I know ill like the training and Im doing this because its fun for me. NOT because I think I'm number one or because I think I'm better looking then other girls. Some people get lots in the beauty of this hobby and lose site of why they started.

       The week leading up to the competition was AMAZING! Contrary to what people do or think during peak week I had a great experience! Tons of  CARBS and WATER! I lightened my weights a it and relaxed on my cardio and just enjoyed the experience! Again people if you have a coach PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE choose them wisely. You want someone there for your best health interests and goals, as I keep saying Staggs Fitness is amazing and will keep your best interest in mind!

       Here are my thoughts on that whole day and what I did. First off I drove 9 hrs one way (the day before) to get to this competition and 9 hrs (about 8 hrs after the show) back home. Up and at um early for hair and makeup. I chose to do my own hair and make up the day of the show ( being a hairdresser, it came easy to me ). If you know you can't do it or want a professional please book someone to help you as you are judged on that along with your body. Enjoyed my breakfast and just relaxed for a bit with my in laws and lil man. Ate again. Got to the venue around 9:30AM and got all settled into the women's changing room. It was so nice to have hair and makeup all done before I got there because while everyone else was trying to look perfect, makings a mess, trying to get into their tanning apt, etc I was all ready and relaxing just waiting to get my final spray and put on my suit. I got to people watch, check out my competition, talk to my family and amazing coach Becca. Eat, eat, eat some more, drink, drink, drink water too. Then all tanned up, suit on and glazed up……SHOW TIME!!! Walked on stage for the 1st competition of my life and felt amazing! No nerves, no jitters, I wasn't scared, I was ready! I had planned for so long that I knew I had to go own what I had worked so hard for and nothing was going to stop me! I entered to categories so i got to be on stage many times. Each time felt a little better then the 1st. After pre judging eat, eat, eat some more….more water and sit and wait for finals! I got to grace the stage 2 more times and it was done. Almost 6 months of prep for about maybe 2 min total on stage, an 8th place finish and about 8 hrs of sitting around doing nothing….just waiting. It was worth every second! I realized I loved it! I want to do another one! I want to train hard this winter and come back and take a trophy, but I don't want to do it just to win and get that trophy, I want to do it because I know I can come back with a stronger look, improve my mind, body and show the judges what it takes to get that top finish! I want to take a trophy home not because I know this judge, or because I'm friends with that person of the show, or my coach is a judge in the show….believe me it happens….I'm going to come back and take it because I trained hard enough to WOW them regardless of who I am, who they are or who is in the show. This may sound like I'm bitter or bashing what happened this past weekend and I'm not at all, I'm just bringing to light what can and does happen. Im glad I went in with a mindset of knowing why I wanted to compete so I didn't have un realistic expectations and false hope of what if I don't win, because I didn't care. All I cared about is going in owning what I had, learning and coming back strong the next time. Win or no win I know how far I came, how hard I worked, how my body looked compared to others and I felt great about it! After the show ended I enjoyed a glass of wine, some pretzels and cheese and a tasty cold sandwich. I didn't pig out of a bunch of BS and binge. The next morning I got to enjoy coffee with my in laws and some oats and peanut butter. The rest of the day I ate like normal. I had packed  my food for the drive home so I knew I would be eating healthy on the road ( I did get a venti soy no while cinnamon dolce latte tho! ). I didn't do all that hard work just to go back to the way I was before! This is a live I chose for me and I'm grateful to have a husband who chooses to enjoy it as well for him!
   
       If you want to compete and would like my honest opinion please feel free to message me or leave comments with any questions you may have, I'd love to answer them!

       From beginning to end this has been a overall wonderful experience! Im so glad I decided to compete, Im training right now (less then a week later) for the spring, working on my lower half and gluteus. My upper body came in strong and looked great! My lower half was softer and not as defined and that is what lead me to my 8th place finish out of 14. Here are two short videos of my posing, Video 1 , Video 2 so you can see what I looked like on stage. Regardless of how I placed, how the judging went, what the other girls looked like, my opinion of where I think I should have been compared to the other girls ( because lets face it, we are all judging and looking at everyone there ) I need to say congrats to each and everyone of them. Getting on stage more then half naked and having people judge you on your beauty, tan, hair, makeup, over all look and most of all YOUR BODY as a female is extremely hard and you have to be one confident person to do that.

      Here are pictures from beginning to end of my competition prep, and just because this competition is over doesn't mean I get to pig out, it means I get to train again for another and enjoy treats here and there like normal. I live a clean and healthy life, not just to be in competition.

After Tesla was born when I first started training again.

Getting in our 5K as a family.








Working on my front squats. I went from 60lb BB to 135lb BB in my 5 months of training.
About the middle of my training. A huge difference!
Working on that flat booty!

Starting to see some arm definition. 

Back progress, June '13


Side progress, June '13

Front progress, June '13



More definition, Aug '13

Plyo = Death!

Box jump oopsie!

Working on that Bicep!

Starting to lean out, Sept '13

Sept '13

Early Oct '13

Posing practice

Posing Oct '13


Gotta get that cardio!

Selfie!

My Suit 1st fitting.



Not a single AB crunch

What compound exercises and old school lifting can do for your core, not one AB exercise! Im not saying they are not important, just want to show you what a proper diet and hard work can do.



Ready and waiting for me to wear it!

Fun with workout clothes!
Back progress, Oct '13

Side progress, oct '13

Front progress, Oct '13

Competition day!
Hair and makeup!

Finished suit and smiles!

Ready for the stage!

Them obliques!

My Competition:) Lovely ladies!

Reppin Staggs Fitness!




Finally some naughty food!


A few stage pics!

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Competition update and more!

                             What a trip this is!!!

      Doing a competition isn't for everyone thats for sure! It's amazing how hard you have to work, not just physically but mentally and emotionally. Everything matters when your in training! From your rest, to what you drink, eat, how you workout out, how you have to plan your day, your weeks your vacations your meal prep, how your hair looks, the condition of your hair, nails, skin, the jewelry you are going to wear, the suit, the suit color, bling, no bling, shoes, tan.....list can go on and on and on. This is why its important to pic a show that will give you enough time to do everything you need to do and have time left over! Don't just hope and pray its all put together by the date. You want to bring an amazing package to your show weather it be your 1st like me or your 15th! Get your body right, your nutrition perfect, the beauty aspect down to the last detail and find someone who will coach you and be healthy Team Staggs Fitness, but MOST important get your MIND right! Your mental state and the reason your competing is almost more important then the competition itself in my opinion. If your doing this just for a title and don't enjoy the prep and journey then I feel if you have the victory it wont be as sweet. 

      When I initially wanted to compete last yr I was sooooo excited to do it with someone I love. Chris and I were going to train together, encourage one another and see where the rd. took us. Well baby happened and I had to out that adventure on hold. Chris however continued his training and I watched him transform into not only a more handsome man with an amazing physique but a person with a passion for fitness like he has never had before and a purpose for our life to be the most healthy couple we could be! Since his 1st place victory and our new addition he has continued to grow in his knowledge and understand how important it is to have a plan to reach your goals. Without a plan you will fail at some point. What I have taken away from this is, now have an understanding of why it is that I want to compete. I want the hard work, I want the journey that everyone isn't willing to take, I want to always continue to build my body to be the healthiest it will can can be and I want what I do to help everyone I can touch! I want to show you that anything is possible when you have dedication, heart and support. Funny how your all the reason why I want to do this. I don't care about the win (ill be happy to take it if it ever happens lol) but I'm in it to inspire you, me and my little family that I have! I want to help people like I have been helped and pay it forward.

      Where does the physical, mental and emotional part come in you may ask.....dear lord its in every part of my day! So, Let me focus on the mental and emotional aspect here because I feel that is most important, then ill move on. Competition prep demands a lot of your attention, time, money and energy. If your in the wrong mindset it can effect your family time and relationships with them and friends (again y its important to know why your doing this and keep that in mind). Not everyone will understand and not everyone will support you. Some may say you shouldn't do it or cant do it and will wear your spirits. Your body may not change the way you want it to, it may take longer to prep then you had hoped, the time you take everyday to make your dreams happen, the everyday family/work life "gets in the way". You as a competitor need to take the steps each day to say to yourself, I CAN do this, people will see in the end, the planning will be worth it, my family will see how healthy I am, my body IS changing slowly but surly and keep that focus! Its easier to give up then to work for it and you have to choose what your going to do everyday you commit to that prep! FOOD is a huge part of this process and so many people are emotional eaters. Everyday life, problems your having, work stress...what ever it is and you fall off the wagon because its easier to drink a beer and relax then it is to go get in your last gym session and that last meal at 10pm or the pizza your husband or wife is having with your group of friends looks great and they say "its ok, one slice wont kill ya"...again u have given in, fallen off the wagon and are not focused. This is by far the HARDEST aspect of training because that meal you just ate with your friends may have set you back. Unless your coach advises you to do so always keep on track! You have to prep your meals for success. You will be able to drink again, you will be able to have pizza again, you will be able to have a snack of what ever it is that you love again...you just have to want your goals more then the quick satisfaction of that food. Who knows, during your prep you may realize there are many things you can live without! I don't really crave junk, however i do miss wine, some fruits  and cheese!!!! When this is all done ill have and enjoy that here and there again but it wont be an every part of my day because as i said earlier, I want to show you this is possible and you all keep me motivated so I'm going to continue to grow my body and knowledge. To do so I will have to learn that that there are things I'll have to do to make that happen. I have missed out on every summer BBQ, wine nights, hot cocoa nights with chris (which I love!), dinner with family and friends, my birthday and halloween will once again come and pass and I'll not be able to do the things I normally would. All this well worth giving up at this moment because I'm so focused that its easy to say no. Disappointing....yes of course but saying no and knowing I'm doing it for a reason feels so good.

      Physically, dear lord does my body hurt. My muscles are so tight I could have a massage everyday and still be sore. I lift (heavy) 4 days a week, plyo 2 days a week and HIIT Cardio 7 days a week. Now I didn't start off like that its been gradual changes since June. I'm in the gym doing 2 a days or back to back workout sessions everyday except fridays when I just do 20min HIIT. I welcome fridays not because its the weekend but because my body gets a small break from all the abuse I make it endure! So besides ALL of that I play with Mr. Booty ( for those of you who don't know thats what I call Tesla our little boy) everyday, Prep and plan for the next day, laundry, yard work, cleaning blah blah blah....all normal everyday things. Im GO GO GO till 8 or 9 PM and by then Im already 3 hrs past when I think should be my bed time. It's like this for months!

      When all is said and done, when the fake tan wears off, my bikini is washed and hung, the jewels are put away, the stress of prep is gone, life is back to "normal", training is reduced and I can sit and relax I'll know I'll be so grateful to have done this! To know I could resist temptation, I said no (many time's might I add), I gave my heart, my mind, my body and my time to something and became a better person for it....I'll take a small break and get right back to it because I will continue to grow not only for my sake but for Chris, Tesla and for all of you!




Friday, October 11, 2013

Dredded leg day

      Thursdays are my least favorite day of the week! Leg day! Shoot me now! Legs are the hardest to build. I can tell you over the past few months i have squatted my ass off and even tho it looks so much better its still not anywhere near where i want it to be! I don't want a butt I want an ASS, so I'm going to work it off to get there! Proud moment yesterday tho! I do 5 sets 14,12,10,10,8 and I warmed up with 135# yesterday. 20# more then normal then moved up to 155#! Next week ill attempt 175# for my last set! Its takes months and months to get there. After baby I hurt just squatting the bar so I'm proud of how far I have come! When I do legs I usually do sumo squats, front squats, walking weighted lunges, hack squats, leg ext and leg curls. When I'm done I'm warn down and ready for bed! Growing my booty is a work in progress and will take me yrs to develop the way I want I'm sure, but I'm in it for the long hall and ready to take that challenge on. My least favorite lifting day has become the thing I want most ha! How funny is that! So each week ill push hard and make it happen because thats the only way it will happen. Dedication is hard, taxing and so rewarding!!!!

Thursday, October 10, 2013

2 Yrs in the making!


      Training for anything in life can be hard! It tests you physically and mentally. It tests your strengths and weaknesses and it tests your relationships with those in your life. Weight training has been such a riot and something i have enjoyed for many years now. So I decided to take it to another level! During 2011 when Chris was deployed and I knew I needed a change in my health i took to researching clean eating and weight lifting. I didn't want to be skinny i wanted to be strong and fit! So that yr i took on a challenge and started BBVi. It was the kick in the but I needed because I was clueless on where to start! BBVi was simple. Drink a few shakes eat healthy meals and be active. That's what I did and I dropped from 190 something to 130 something at my smallest at that point. I was much smaller but not as strong as I wanted to be. Like I said I didn't want to be small I wanted to be strong and fit! So that's when the research came in more and more about weight training, HIIT cardio, not your "normal" healthy eating but eating to fuel your body and planning each week in advance for success. During all my research I kept seeing amazing physiques in bodybuilding and learned to admire their hard work, dedication to their passion and the love to compete! Chris and I decided to take on another challenge in 2012 and do our 1st NPC shows in Anchorage, AK

      With the help of Tim and Rebecca Staggs https://www.facebook.com/staggsfitness We couldent lose! Tim and Becca have been amazing thru this process and they are the kind of health and wellness coach you want on your side! They care about you as a person, your goals (competition or normal life), you HEALTH and doing it the smart way!

      Chris and I started training Mid 2012 for the fall show in Anchorage. It was something we have never done before but we were doing it together and it makes it that much more fun! Doing something you have learned to love with someone you love makes its so special! We got our plans, we went to the store to get food and we made so much food to plan for the week hoping we could do this. We did!
Planning your week in advance turns out is an amazing way to stay accountable and to succeed! Chris was eating a ton, I was eating a ton and our workouts were taxing! Now Chris being a solider had it a bit harder then I did with his meals as you never know how the military can be and when your needed but he did an amazing job keeping grounded and steady! Week after week we noticed changes and were having fun each week knowing we were bettering ourselves not only on the outside but fueling our bodies with a healthy lifestyle thru food! About 2 months or so into training I'm feeling sick, tired all the time and week. YUP you guessed it IM  PREGNANT :O! What pregnant, I cant be I'm training, we don't want kids, we are not ready for kids, my life is over, ill never compete, this is my dream......All things that went thru my head in about a millisecond. So after we knew training for the competition was out of the question for me but Chris continued. Even tho I was down i was not out! After all pregnancy isn't a illness its just a bump in my physical journey so I continued to lift, do cardio and eat clean and healthy. BTW being pregnant isn't an excuse to quit the good foods and weights, trust me its easier to bounce back after baby if your doing these things during! Each week Chris changed and I grew bigger! This was hard to watch happen because I had just lost all that weight! Lots of emotions and thoughts were going thru my mind. Resentment, sadness and countless others because this was our dream and now its put on hold. I told myself i needed to be happy for Chris, be there for him and support him thru his journey and I did. Result.....HE WON! 1st show, 1st place in his division and 1st place overall! CONGRATS baby! Damn all them ladies in the bikinis  there...jealous, you bet your ass....LOL!
                                       Previous to this pic he had lost 50# all while deployed!


Then we had baby Tesla in March 2013. He is  wonderful healthy strong baby boy! We will get into baby blogs later!

     I wanted to get back into training ASAP after Tesla but having to have a C-Section it was a tough recovery. I waited till i was cleared by the doc and then started back slow. Getting a schedule back was tricky too having a new born and trying to keep up with everything else. But again that will be in a later blog. I took T to the gym with me and did laps around the track with him in a front pack just to get moving again. My nutrition was getting better at that point and I had started meal prepping again in hopes to start training for a competition for the fall of this yr. My body responded amazing to the meal prep and the light workouts I was doing. Muscle memory is a WONDERFUL thing! Then it as time to decide....do I start training again, do I take on the grueling routine of meal preps, being a wife, mom, home maker and a 2 month vacation while we move across country....umm duhhh! YES! Super women here I come! Started out in June of this yr with Tim and Becca again and got my program together. I can tell you, having a wonderful husband has been a god send. Better husband and dad that anyone could ask for! I train everyday and he hangs with T while i do it. Never complains and always encourages! So from march to June I got off my "baby" weight but did not look the same at all! from June till now I have dropped even more i believe another 15lbs. Again during this training so far we have a new baby, we packed shipped everything we own, flew with 12 bags to our home for a visit, when we got to our new home lived in a hotel for 2 weeks, got our home and still didn't have any household goods to use for another week and got Chris settled into his new job. Hotel stay was tricky. We had a microwave and fridge. Canned chicken, oats, turkey jerky, microwaved sweet potatoes and eggs were my BFF! Poor Chris got what ever I had and what ever small goodies we could make with the microwave. Finally we have everything settled and meal planning is a piece of cake! I'm going into so much detail with you because I want you to know that when you want something you do what u need to to make it happen. You surround yourself with people who will help and be understanding to those who just don't get it. I currently train 7 days a week, 1 being an active rest day. I have about 4 weeks left till my 1st show and even tho I'm sad Chris and I could not do it together we have both had the chance to do it and be supportive and there for each other! We both plan on doing more shows, we plan our building and bettering our bodies inside and out and we plan on pushing each other to always be better, not just with our body but with ourselves as individuals and as a couple.

My body has become more powerful then ever, although i feel worn down many days for all the training and normal everyday things involved in life. My mind has been transformed into a learning machine! I want to know all I can to improve the health of everyone I can, to teach people with some sacrifice you can make it a better life for yourself and your family.

Key things to remember - Keep your nutrition on point and your workouts tough and your body will grow! Ill share my take on foods and nutrition in my clean eating blog!

I hope you continue to follow our journey and I appreciate the support for you all. Below I'm going to attach a few photos so you can see the work that goes into this!

My next blog in the "topic section" well be on the stresses of training, mind, body and how it tests the relationships with the ones you love. Believe me it does!

                                                2011 When i decided enough was enough
                                                 Where i was at before i got pregnant

                                                                      Post baby

Current photo during contest prep!